When I think of my dad, I think of the song “Small Town Southern Man” by Alan Jackson.

He’s a southern Texas man, not born in a small town, but a man whose wish was to win the lottery, buy a farm with horses, and have houses for all his children to live.

A man who bowed his head to Jesus, knowing he’d reunite with Him, his mother, and siblings one day.

A man whose hands felt of broken, dry leather from working hard labor his whole life.

A man who was certain that his greatest accomplishments were his 5 children.

A man who dedicated his life to making sure his wife and children were taken care of. Who’d offer his last dollar to any one of them if they needed it.

A man whose body is worn from riding a mower, digging with shovels, and feeling the rumble of the weed-eater.

A man whose pockets are nearly always empty but keeps a smile on his face.

His life hasn’t been easy.

His life has been poor, yet filled with richness because of his family.

His spirit has never broken, even when his body has.

His gentle kindness is what is known by his customers, his friends, and his family.

Watching him navigate life has taught me many lessons.

Value the measure of hard work, for true wealth is found in dedication and effort, not just in material gains. Tough times and hard work build character and earn respect.

Nothing takes priority over family, for being blessed with the honor of taking care of loved ones is life’s greatest achievement.

Always show humility and generosity, as a full heart is worth more than a full wallet.

Live with determination to persevere through adversity. Life is bound to be challenging, but a strong spirit can weather any storm.

Take time to find joy in life’s simplicities, as happiness doesn’t depend on wealth but on finding joy in the simple things.

Finding a guiding light in faith, in something greater, can help you face life’s hardships.

Showing unconditional kindness can leave a lasting impact on those around you.

Through his unwavering spirit, my father has taught me that the true measure of a life well-lived is found in love, resilience, and the joy of giving to others.